Recovery time

Posted on: October 9th, 2012 by A Team 1 Comment

Physical recovery;

When a person recovers from a sports injury or breaks a bone in his body the recovery speed will be a matter of months to reach a normal state of heath,

On the other hand the recovery speed for the physical body will be much faster if a person pulls a muscle or has a cold or a flew.

The beautifully amazing human body will naturally fight any illness in body and automatically cure itself without any effort from you.

The only thing you do is rest and the human body will do the rest. “wow how amazing”

Emotional recovery;

Losing a close member of the family is the foremost hardest pain one can suffer, it splits the heart into pieces and all your emotions run wild like a lion chasing a herd of deer’s.

As the lion approaches close to the herd, the deer’s run wild in all directions to save their lives, in the same manner when the loss of a close one tries to enter and sit in your heart all your emotions run wild in all directions.

The same pattern emerges for person who falls in love with a partner (male/female) and for some reason it doesn’t work out, the recovery rate increase ten times fold whereby from months it turns out to be years.

And the most extreme cases it totally destroys a person’s life.

What should I focus on more?

By far you must focus on your emotional side more than your physical side because only minimal effort is required for physical recovery, all you do is partake enough rest proscribed by your doctor and your body will go on autopilot and recover.

Whist your emotional side needs your full time and attention, emotions have a mind of their own and if you let them run wild then eventually they will start to affect every area of your life and ultimately stop you from achieving your dreams.

For example of the person whose love didn’t work out he just tried to block and ignore his emotions.

The emotions like loss, want, loneliness, love and departure are free to do what they want with no control and no restriction on them.

The poor person begins to eat too much and locks himself away from the world because of the painful emotions.

Over time he will have no friends and he will be extremely over weight which is very disastrous.

“Emotions” I control you;

Just like the physical body has an automatic recovery system so does the emotional side.

Emotions emanate from feelings and feelings emanate from the heart, and love is the captain of your heart.

When love is fully active and present in your heart then your recovery speed will be extremely quick.

Love has many sailors which work for him like forgiveness, acceptance, patience, niceness, understanding and many more.

“Love is a subject which must be learnt and implement in one’s life”
In the above of example of Romeo loves not working out for him and the captain of his heart is love, which he learnt and implemented in his life.

When his emotions try to run wild like a ship in a storm the captain (the heart) will call his sailors (forgiveness, understanding, acceptance) to control his emotions and put his life back on track without any effort from him and the recovery speed will be on autopilot which will take months rather than years.

“If a person loves it makes him healthy, wealthy and wise”

The law of the land (Karma)

Posted on: June 22nd, 2012 by A Team 14 Comments

How important is this law;

From the very existence of mankind this law has been in force to insure peace, harmony, justice and fairness in the world, And in this law people over a thousand years ago have found  peace, security, success and happiness.

And on the hand the people who paid no attention to this law or had very little value for it suffered a tremendous loss which intern affected every aspect of their lives.

Which affected their dreams to ambitions and their family to their relationships; sadly they fell into sadness which leads them to depression.

What it is and how it works;

It’s like a play roundabout in a park when you sit in the roundabout it will start to go round and round and eventually come back in the same place where you first started, Or when you throw a ball against a wall it will come straight back to you.

In other words whatever you do in the present (now) will meet you in the future.

The law of the land refers to “goodness” totally and absolutely goodness, it has many names but the name we are all familiar with is karma.

So when a person performs a good deed or bad deed in the present day it will surely meet him in the future.

Goodness equals happiness, success and peace.

Badness equals failure, sadness and depression.

My actions are my only true belongings.  I cannot escape the consequences of my actions.  My actions are the ground upon which I stand.  ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny.  ~Tryon Edwards

Moving forward in your beautiful life;

As human beings we all have made mistakes in our lives and are continually going to make them.

If in your past life you have hurt someone feelings or in your present life you should ask them for forgiveness whether it be your parents, family, friends, work colleagues or even your neighbours.

It’s good to have remorse in your heart because remorse of feeling leads to the door of goodness, and ultimately in goodness lays peace, happiness, success and purpose.

Become the law of the land (goodness);

Live breath goodness and apply it in all aspects of your life. Show niceness and kindness with love to your wife (partners) children, parents, friends, work colleagues, and the people in your life and the whole of humanity.

When you are sending out pure beautiful positive energy into your life and the world only pure beautiful positive energy will be coming back.

And your future??????????? I leave you to answer this….

Your beautiful partner 2 (men)

Posted on: May 31st, 2012 by A Team 691 Comments

Men are not born Romeos from Shakespeare?

At the beginning of a relationship men play the part of Romeo extremely well by buying flowers for their partners, whining and dining in the best restaurants and speaking the language of love.

Treating their partners like princesses with immense kindness and softness which blows the women of her feet, the women thinks  after all these very long years of waiting  finally their man of her dreams has arrived.

It will seem like a flash that two years pass by and normality has crept in, from love to romance then arguing to fighting.

Both partners talk to their friends;

“Where did we go wrong”?

Where is my beloved Romeo, oh Romeo Romeo;

Here my love the man’s heart says?

I provide you with all the luxuries you want and I work so thee is happy and content and I walk in the world as your lion and defender of our house and children.

But sadly the women don’t understand their men because they judge their relationship on their past (how it was) rather than how it should be.

And they compare their relationship to their friends and family saying “but look how happy they are”

Then the volcano erupts…..

Then they break up….

If only the women new:

Men are naturally strong and have a macho side to them, which is embedded in the making of man.

Their personality breeds bravery, strongness and leadership, they thrive and love to be with their male friends to share this intuitive power with them.

To harness this intuitive power they take on sports which will bring this out of them like football, rugby and they will also be drawn to the police, army or the navy.

And a mans shield is his excellent character like honour, dignity, truthfulness, and trust.

His soft side is love, romance, softness, niceness and gentleness which mainly women bring out of him.

Rekindle the flame of love:

In the sad love story of Romeo and Juliet their parents are a “major obstacle” in their life, which prevents them of getting together and living a happy life.

Because their families are enemies towards each other it drives Romeo and Juliet to suicide.

As Juliet what “major obstacles” are in your and Romeos way?

It may be;

  1. Work
  2. Family
  3. Spend less time with each other
  4. A third person
  5. Investigate everything

When you find the problem then fix it together with love and patience.

Fulfill your Romeo wants and needs, and if your Romeo likes sports then encourage and support him so you become that part of this life too.

Keep your hearts connected at all times and in return your Romeo will move heaven and earth to keep you happy.

Love yourself

Posted on: April 18th, 2012 by A Team 9 Comments

Do I come first or my family or the rest of the world?

If you think your family, then you will be very surprised to know it’s not because when you work extremely hard day and night, week in week out exceeding the normal work hours by over 60 plus.

And in the fore front of your mind is your family (partner, kids) with deep love in your heart for them, eventually you will burn out and break down. (Your depression will start slowly)

As the time passes you by and all your children have grown up with wisdom and knowledge,

Their financial structure has been set by your hard work over the years by sacrificing your youth, health you eventually reach old age.

Your children will fly away like birds to find their place in the big wide world and leaving you all alone in your home.

“Your inner voice calls out”

Do this or do that? Fulfill this dream and that dream constantly torturing you and when least expected your ambitions from the past will step in and remind you of all the things you haven’t done or yet to be done.

However, the saddest thing will be that you will have no more energy and strength to do anything because of old age.

And the world will pass you by whilst you’re sitting at home lonely and miserable.

You come first?     

“You must love yourself before you love another, by accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.”

You simply organize your life around your own timetable, fulfilling all of your old dreams to your new dreams and ambitions.

Do the things you love and do the things that makes you happy, have one day particularly for only you and your close friends, because they bring enjoyment and fulfillment to your life, and though them you will be in touch with the world?

Must;

1)  Have one day for relaxation

2) Live in the present and focus on the future.

3) Be organized

It sounds good but can I really do it?  

Yes off course you can just by organizing your entire week, next a month after that the entire year.

If you study any successful person in the world, you will come to realize the key fact that they were extremely organized.

Monday to Sunday you have 168 hours in the week, minus your work and sleeping hours you are left with all the free hours to do whatever you want.

Intern you will find Time for yourself, family, friends and relaxation.

You and your time are extremely precious?

The beautiful world was your servant when you entered it. The trees produce oxygen for you so you live healthy; the earth produces beautiful fruit and vegetables for you to eat.

And the animals are your servants, some you eat others you use as transport and others you keep as pets.

You are so unique and precious no one has your finger prints in the entire world, which means there will never be another person like you in this world ever again.

So you have one life, one chance, one shot to be the best you can be.

Remember when you love yourself and are happy everything around you becomes happy and full of positive energy.

Like your family, friends and the rest of the world, so I hope you realize one very important fact that “you come first”.

Your beautiful partner (women)

Posted on: March 1st, 2012 by A Team 69 Comments

Why do women break up with their partners?

At the beginning of a relationship the love between the couples are very strong and in full force.

But as the time lapses the flame of love between the couples starts to degrease and blow out because the “commutation” gets totally muddled up.

The man in the relationship becomes busy with work, working day and night to provide a descent life style for their partners, and try to fulfil their dreams they made to their partner whilst maintaining the household and the living needs.

Being fully immersed in life and not having any time for anything else, the man thinks this is showing love to their partner, one year passes then two or even 10 years pass by without knowing then slowly all the arguing and fighting starts.

Continuous fighting:

“The partner snaps”; you don’t love me anymore, we don’t spend any time together anymore,

Crying, hurting and wanting to be loved.

“The man snaps”, I work very hard by providing you with everything you want, and I give you money, what else do you want, you are always arguing and fighting I can’t stand you anymore.

What a wrong thing to say in the state of anger, at that very point the women heart starts to hate her partner and she losses any love she had for him.

Thus the flame of love is blown out.

If only the man new:

“There is in every true woman’s heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity”

Women are naturally kind soft and gentle, they are emotional beings who operate and function though emotions.

They see, hear and speak with love and live their life according to trust and companionship, women are very fragile and have to be dealt with care.

Rekindle the flame of love:

Can you remember the first stages of your relationship how beautiful it was, the deep conversations which lasted hours and the intense eye contact with love flowing towards each other?

The days out and whining and dining with each other, how did it feel?

Amazing, Out of this world your heart will be saying.

So you come to realise that the commutation with a women is always love and emotion the material things come second.

Keep your heart connected with them at all times and then fulfil their needs and wants with compassion and kindness.

Then you will be the happiest man alive.

Relationship Help

Posted on: February 7th, 2012 by A Team 20 Comments

My partner:

I can stand my partner, (he or she) makes me sick, I’m always fighting and arguing, they can’t stand me.
I work very hard and take care of everything but they don’t appreciate me, you go on and on continually fighting and arguing with your partner until you reach breaking point.
When you turn to your close ones for help and guidance they say to you “leave them” (your partner)

Catch 22:

Right about now you and your partner trains are filled with passengers of hate, bitterness, resentment and total animosity towards each other.
Your trains are on Corse for a head on collision, your vision is impaired and your love is blocked, the gate way to hearts are closed.
From having a million positive solutions you are narrowed down to only one negative solution, “shall I leave or not?”

Choice:

Leave or break up;

The choice of leaving may seem easy at first but the side effects are very severe.
As you go through your life trying to find a new partner you will never find someone who understood you like your first partner, and you will subconsciously try your best to find similar qualities in your new partners but once gone it never comes back.
Its human nature that when you don’t find what you’re looking for you move on and on until you find it, “the same pattern emerges in your relationships”.
Relationships upon relationships you will never find a partner like your first one, you will always become frustrated and sad and when you see your old partner in a new relationship it will break your heart into two.
And this is a major cause of “depression,” if you have children then their future becomes dull and they will suffer the most and it will affect them permanently.
And remember good times don’t last forever so it’s very important to hold on to the special thing you’ve got.

Fixing it:
“When you make a sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not each other but to bring a unity in a relationship”

Far more the best choice ever, after a big fight with your partner you immediately make up with your partner, your relationship with your partner becomes more close and intimate and your bond and love increases.

So the first step in finding a cure for your relationship is to open the gate way to your heart. And no matter what, all ways keep your hearts connected.

Depression cure

Posted on: December 21st, 2011 by A Team 6 Comments

“You hold the key to your success”

A lot of people treat depression like it’s some sort of disease, others treat it as an illness, but in reality it’s a beautiful gift. And the best gift mankind has ever had.
This beautiful gift is an external navigator, where it navigates you to find your true purpose and happiness in life.
As a society we have learned as a natural instinct to run away from our problems rather than to deal with them.
For example in today’s world when you closely investigate the new movies and soaps like Eastenders and coronation street
You come to realize that whenever the characters in the soaps are faced with problems they either run away from it or turn to drugs and alcohol.
You can clearly see the hole in the logic here that when you continually run away from your problems they build up and continually increase, And take shelter in the house of depression permanently.
Metaphorically speaking depression becomes the house of all your problems. (Past, present & future)

Side effects of running away from your problems;

Now as you’re wondering though your beautiful life suddenly a problem confronts you and takes you off guard, As you’re trying your best to find a solution to this problem, unexpectedly without you even realizing it all your other problems (the ones you’ve been running away from) attack you all at once.
Being overwhelmed and helpless you fall into despair, how can a person deal with ten problems all at once it’s not humanly possible.
Then you start living in the dark side of life, And your new family becomes sadness, self pity, misery and the list goes on.
It then proceeds to become a habit then a habitual pattern and finally a comfort zone.
“And the worst thing that happens is that you become imprisoned in your own sub-conscious mind”

Cure:
In order for the external navigator (depression) to guide you towards your true and ultimate success, you will need the “key” to open the “door.” (Your house of depression)
Watch this video and you will find the key……..

Depression cure

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