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Relationship Help

Posted on: February 7th, 2012 by A Team 20 Comments

My partner:

I can stand my partner, (he or she) makes me sick, I’m always fighting and arguing, they can’t stand me.
I work very hard and take care of everything but they don’t appreciate me, you go on and on continually fighting and arguing with your partner until you reach breaking point.
When you turn to your close ones for help and guidance they say to you “leave them” (your partner)

Catch 22:

Right about now you and your partner trains are filled with passengers of hate, bitterness, resentment and total animosity towards each other.
Your trains are on Corse for a head on collision, your vision is impaired and your love is blocked, the gate way to hearts are closed.
From having a million positive solutions you are narrowed down to only one negative solution, “shall I leave or not?”

Choice:

Leave or break up;

The choice of leaving may seem easy at first but the side effects are very severe.
As you go through your life trying to find a new partner you will never find someone who understood you like your first partner, and you will subconsciously try your best to find similar qualities in your new partners but once gone it never comes back.
Its human nature that when you don’t find what you’re looking for you move on and on until you find it, “the same pattern emerges in your relationships”.
Relationships upon relationships you will never find a partner like your first one, you will always become frustrated and sad and when you see your old partner in a new relationship it will break your heart into two.
And this is a major cause of “depression,” if you have children then their future becomes dull and they will suffer the most and it will affect them permanently.
And remember good times don’t last forever so it’s very important to hold on to the special thing you’ve got.

Fixing it:
“When you make a sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not each other but to bring a unity in a relationship”

Far more the best choice ever, after a big fight with your partner you immediately make up with your partner, your relationship with your partner becomes more close and intimate and your bond and love increases.

So the first step in finding a cure for your relationship is to open the gate way to your heart. And no matter what, all ways keep your hearts connected.