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Your beautiful partner 2 (men)

Posted on: May 31st, 2012 by A Team 684 Comments

Men are not born Romeos from Shakespeare?

At the beginning of a relationship men play the part of Romeo extremely well by buying flowers for their partners, whining and dining in the best restaurants and speaking the language of love.

Treating their partners like princesses with immense kindness and softness which blows the women of her feet, the women thinks  after all these very long years of waiting  finally their man of her dreams has arrived.

It will seem like a flash that two years pass by and normality has crept in, from love to romance then arguing to fighting.

Both partners talk to their friends;

“Where did we go wrong”?

Where is my beloved Romeo, oh Romeo Romeo;

Here my love the man’s heart says?

I provide you with all the luxuries you want and I work so thee is happy and content and I walk in the world as your lion and defender of our house and children.

But sadly the women don’t understand their men because they judge their relationship on their past (how it was) rather than how it should be.

And they compare their relationship to their friends and family saying “but look how happy they are”

Then the volcano erupts…..

Then they break up….

If only the women new:

Men are naturally strong and have a macho side to them, which is embedded in the making of man.

Their personality breeds bravery, strongness and leadership, they thrive and love to be with their male friends to share this intuitive power with them.

To harness this intuitive power they take on sports which will bring this out of them like football, rugby and they will also be drawn to the police, army or the navy.

And a mans shield is his excellent character like honour, dignity, truthfulness, and trust.

His soft side is love, romance, softness, niceness and gentleness which mainly women bring out of him.

Rekindle the flame of love:

In the sad love story of Romeo and Juliet their parents are a “major obstacle” in their life, which prevents them of getting together and living a happy life.

Because their families are enemies towards each other it drives Romeo and Juliet to suicide.

As Juliet what “major obstacles” are in your and Romeos way?

It may be;

  1. Work
  2. Family
  3. Spend less time with each other
  4. A third person
  5. Investigate everything

When you find the problem then fix it together with love and patience.

Fulfill your Romeo wants and needs, and if your Romeo likes sports then encourage and support him so you become that part of this life too.

Keep your hearts connected at all times and in return your Romeo will move heaven and earth to keep you happy.

Relationship Help

Posted on: February 7th, 2012 by A Team 20 Comments

My partner:

I can stand my partner, (he or she) makes me sick, I’m always fighting and arguing, they can’t stand me.
I work very hard and take care of everything but they don’t appreciate me, you go on and on continually fighting and arguing with your partner until you reach breaking point.
When you turn to your close ones for help and guidance they say to you “leave them” (your partner)

Catch 22:

Right about now you and your partner trains are filled with passengers of hate, bitterness, resentment and total animosity towards each other.
Your trains are on Corse for a head on collision, your vision is impaired and your love is blocked, the gate way to hearts are closed.
From having a million positive solutions you are narrowed down to only one negative solution, “shall I leave or not?”

Choice:

Leave or break up;

The choice of leaving may seem easy at first but the side effects are very severe.
As you go through your life trying to find a new partner you will never find someone who understood you like your first partner, and you will subconsciously try your best to find similar qualities in your new partners but once gone it never comes back.
Its human nature that when you don’t find what you’re looking for you move on and on until you find it, “the same pattern emerges in your relationships”.
Relationships upon relationships you will never find a partner like your first one, you will always become frustrated and sad and when you see your old partner in a new relationship it will break your heart into two.
And this is a major cause of “depression,” if you have children then their future becomes dull and they will suffer the most and it will affect them permanently.
And remember good times don’t last forever so it’s very important to hold on to the special thing you’ve got.

Fixing it:
“When you make a sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not each other but to bring a unity in a relationship”

Far more the best choice ever, after a big fight with your partner you immediately make up with your partner, your relationship with your partner becomes more close and intimate and your bond and love increases.

So the first step in finding a cure for your relationship is to open the gate way to your heart. And no matter what, all ways keep your hearts connected.