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Love yourself

Posted on: April 18th, 2012 by A Team 9 Comments

Do I come first or my family or the rest of the world?

If you think your family, then you will be very surprised to know it’s not because when you work extremely hard day and night, week in week out exceeding the normal work hours by over 60 plus.

And in the fore front of your mind is your family (partner, kids) with deep love in your heart for them, eventually you will burn out and break down. (Your depression will start slowly)

As the time passes you by and all your children have grown up with wisdom and knowledge,

Their financial structure has been set by your hard work over the years by sacrificing your youth, health you eventually reach old age.

Your children will fly away like birds to find their place in the big wide world and leaving you all alone in your home.

“Your inner voice calls out”

Do this or do that? Fulfill this dream and that dream constantly torturing you and when least expected your ambitions from the past will step in and remind you of all the things you haven’t done or yet to be done.

However, the saddest thing will be that you will have no more energy and strength to do anything because of old age.

And the world will pass you by whilst you’re sitting at home lonely and miserable.

You come first?     

“You must love yourself before you love another, by accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.”

You simply organize your life around your own timetable, fulfilling all of your old dreams to your new dreams and ambitions.

Do the things you love and do the things that makes you happy, have one day particularly for only you and your close friends, because they bring enjoyment and fulfillment to your life, and though them you will be in touch with the world?

Must;

1)  Have one day for relaxation

2) Live in the present and focus on the future.

3) Be organized

It sounds good but can I really do it?  

Yes off course you can just by organizing your entire week, next a month after that the entire year.

If you study any successful person in the world, you will come to realize the key fact that they were extremely organized.

Monday to Sunday you have 168 hours in the week, minus your work and sleeping hours you are left with all the free hours to do whatever you want.

Intern you will find Time for yourself, family, friends and relaxation.

You and your time are extremely precious?

The beautiful world was your servant when you entered it. The trees produce oxygen for you so you live healthy; the earth produces beautiful fruit and vegetables for you to eat.

And the animals are your servants, some you eat others you use as transport and others you keep as pets.

You are so unique and precious no one has your finger prints in the entire world, which means there will never be another person like you in this world ever again.

So you have one life, one chance, one shot to be the best you can be.

Remember when you love yourself and are happy everything around you becomes happy and full of positive energy.

Like your family, friends and the rest of the world, so I hope you realize one very important fact that “you come first”.

Your beautiful partner (women)

Posted on: March 1st, 2012 by A Team 69 Comments

Why do women break up with their partners?

At the beginning of a relationship the love between the couples are very strong and in full force.

But as the time lapses the flame of love between the couples starts to degrease and blow out because the “commutation” gets totally muddled up.

The man in the relationship becomes busy with work, working day and night to provide a descent life style for their partners, and try to fulfil their dreams they made to their partner whilst maintaining the household and the living needs.

Being fully immersed in life and not having any time for anything else, the man thinks this is showing love to their partner, one year passes then two or even 10 years pass by without knowing then slowly all the arguing and fighting starts.

Continuous fighting:

“The partner snaps”; you don’t love me anymore, we don’t spend any time together anymore,

Crying, hurting and wanting to be loved.

“The man snaps”, I work very hard by providing you with everything you want, and I give you money, what else do you want, you are always arguing and fighting I can’t stand you anymore.

What a wrong thing to say in the state of anger, at that very point the women heart starts to hate her partner and she losses any love she had for him.

Thus the flame of love is blown out.

If only the man new:

“There is in every true woman’s heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity”

Women are naturally kind soft and gentle, they are emotional beings who operate and function though emotions.

They see, hear and speak with love and live their life according to trust and companionship, women are very fragile and have to be dealt with care.

Rekindle the flame of love:

Can you remember the first stages of your relationship how beautiful it was, the deep conversations which lasted hours and the intense eye contact with love flowing towards each other?

The days out and whining and dining with each other, how did it feel?

Amazing, Out of this world your heart will be saying.

So you come to realise that the commutation with a women is always love and emotion the material things come second.

Keep your heart connected with them at all times and then fulfil their needs and wants with compassion and kindness.

Then you will be the happiest man alive.

Depression cure

Posted on: December 21st, 2011 by A Team 6 Comments

“You hold the key to your success”

A lot of people treat depression like it’s some sort of disease, others treat it as an illness, but in reality it’s a beautiful gift. And the best gift mankind has ever had.
This beautiful gift is an external navigator, where it navigates you to find your true purpose and happiness in life.
As a society we have learned as a natural instinct to run away from our problems rather than to deal with them.
For example in today’s world when you closely investigate the new movies and soaps like Eastenders and coronation street
You come to realize that whenever the characters in the soaps are faced with problems they either run away from it or turn to drugs and alcohol.
You can clearly see the hole in the logic here that when you continually run away from your problems they build up and continually increase, And take shelter in the house of depression permanently.
Metaphorically speaking depression becomes the house of all your problems. (Past, present & future)

Side effects of running away from your problems;

Now as you’re wondering though your beautiful life suddenly a problem confronts you and takes you off guard, As you’re trying your best to find a solution to this problem, unexpectedly without you even realizing it all your other problems (the ones you’ve been running away from) attack you all at once.
Being overwhelmed and helpless you fall into despair, how can a person deal with ten problems all at once it’s not humanly possible.
Then you start living in the dark side of life, And your new family becomes sadness, self pity, misery and the list goes on.
It then proceeds to become a habit then a habitual pattern and finally a comfort zone.
“And the worst thing that happens is that you become imprisoned in your own sub-conscious mind”

Cure:
In order for the external navigator (depression) to guide you towards your true and ultimate success, you will need the “key” to open the “door.” (Your house of depression)
Watch this video and you will find the key……..

Depression cure

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